The Scrappiness of My Life

A blog totally dedicated to the scrapbooking part of my life.

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Okay...after much thinking and thinking and thinking I've decided that it's BEST for me to maintain a single blog. Having to keep up with my blogging buddies here and my designer's blog elsewhere has really gotten to be more than I care to handle.

sooooo

I'm merging the two of them. Please find my new blog here with today's prompt update. I will be blogging as both blog-fiend sharia and designer sharia at the same spot. Plop plop fizz fizz oh what a RELIEF that is!

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Prompt 8/2/06 : In What Ways Do you/Would you Indulge Yourself?

The "Would You" First:
I can't lie...I'd shop. I'd shop for clothes (a minimal amount because it's hard for me to make up my mind about what I like) But I'd shop for virtual things - I'd shop for programs, I'd shop for the best camera I liked. I'd shop for clothes GALORE for my daughters, and shoes and belts and all kinds of accessories - they love that stuff much much more than I do. I'd drag dh in for a serious manicure and pedicure. SERIOUS. He's in dire need and I'm not the kind that will perform those duties myself.

Now, for the things I do.:
I am big big big on salon trips. Hair, nails and feet. I am not so keen on 'makeovers' because I'm not that big into makeup. A little mascara, some lipstick and creme-to-powder foundation and that's it. No need to pay for a full makeover when it makes me feel like i've got a ton of gunk on my face. *shiver*. I love pampering myself. Or rather, having someone else to do it. Although I have a facial steamer (2 in fact) and 3 massaging foottubs and a full manicure set including the electric 'drill' aka nailfile/buffer, I am not into performing these operations on myself by myself.

Friday, July 28, 2006

Be a Citizen - Screw your responsibilities as such...

Okay....so I haven't blogged in a few days because we've been busy getting the apartment ready for painting. That is now done, and I've been waiting to get this rant up for 3 days now.

Many people are here illegally, they come on boats, on planes, the walk over they even ship themselves over in boxes and crates. People are willing to DIE to live here - people that have only HEARD of the freedoms that belong to us are willing to give their lives just to end their lives on American soil.

I love being here. I know that this country has its problems. I know as a black woman I sometimes feel (both from outside sources and myself) inferior. I know that 'equality' isn't across the board here. I know that bad things happen here - more than anywhere else I believe. But, given all of that, I really ADORE this land. I love the freedoms I have. I am not the type of person that would volunteer for the military, but I vote faithfully, I obeserve national holidays for our armed forces with my own silent moment (and if my girls are around, I explain to them why it's important). I think that I am a good citizen, maybe not 'model', but I contribute positively to society.

I AM FUMING AT MOST PEOPLE THAT ARE CALLED FOR JURY DUTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, not all of them, but the bulk of people that are called for Jury Duty view it as some stupid waste of time. They can't seem to understand that they're being INVITED to share in one of the things that make this country a great place - and that is a legal system - even with it's flawas - that includes and requests the local citizenry for it's help in enforcing the laws - the lawas we as citizens vote for year after year.

As a member of the court system, I see daily people that freely admit they've got 'better things to do' than sitting in a courtroom being examined for Jury service. How can this be? How can it be that the same body of peopel that whine and cry and scream bloody murder at criminal activity can't see the service the provide when they are serving on the Juries of our nation? Why is it that the only time the majority of people living in this nation want to experience the jury system at work is when they're own family member or friend might be on trial for something - then of COURSE they want to have a "jury of peers" sitting in judgment of the facts of the case. Which, if you aren't clear on that, is what the Jury is doing. No Jury judges the PERSON, the Jury judges only the facts, in respect - what is TRUE and what is FALSE within a trial.

Gosh - if you're one of those that can't stand being called for Jury Service - please stand back, take a moment, and ask yourself where else can you be such an integrel part of the system of laws...and if you dislike Jury Duty so much - are you willing to move to a less free country to avoid it? After all, I am not so sure that if you can't see the reason and necessity for serving as a Juror you deserve the other 'good things' about living here.

hmph. - blogging buddies - if you've been patient enough to read this long post, click the link to my designer's blog and you can snag that gift that's there. It's for another purpose, but you can have it too.

Monday, July 24, 2006

Prompt 7/24: Would I Go On Reality TV?

Notice - I have new stuff in my store - click the my designer blog to see them (over to the right)...
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It's funny that you ask that. Dh and I were just talking (actually, we'd been talking for weeks) about if I'd ever want to do that "wife swap" or "trading spouses" show. You, the ones where they swap two people that are living lives that are completely and totally the opposite of each other. On the surface I'm thinking, sure...why not? What's the harm in such a thing really, because I do believe we can all learn something from the next guy (or girl) but I'm thinking they use those shows as more than 'testing' your limits. They're more likely to toss youinto a situation that living your regular 'safe?' life you'd never get into. I'm not sure how well I'd do with something like that.

Also, while I'm not a particularly 'private' person, I don't think I could ever be myself with a camera following me around all day every day for weeks. Nope...don't think I could do that. Sometimes (more often that not really) the people on those shows end up showing themselves to be fools and idiots - and who knows if that's an acurate depiction of them or if that's just what the network told them to present themselves as. I can't believe some of the crazy things I've seen and heard professed 'christians' say and do on those shows - and I'm not talking about things that are outside the walk of God, I'm talking things that are supposed 'helps' to the new families. Critical things to, debasing people and whatnot. Oh well...I guess the short answer is that no...on second thought I don't think I would go on 'live' (yeah right) television...

Friday, July 21, 2006

7/21/06 Prompt: What's The Best Advice You've Received:

I really don't know. Well...yeah..I think it was "lean on the Lord". That's the best advice I've ever gotten. It keeps me from worrying about ANYTHING - and I DO mean anything. I just always find a way to "Let go and let God". It's sometimes HARD to follow that advice, but what makes it easily the best advice that I've gotten is that it's always easy to forget about it and just say God's working it all out FOR me. That keeps me safe. So, that's the advice I always give....
Oh, and it works in ANY and EVERY situation.

Thursday, July 20, 2006

OH MY GOODNESS I'M SO EXCITED !!!!!

I have some big news to announce about one of our blogging buddies. Click Here to see what I'm talking about!!
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NOW FOR TODAY'S PROMPT
How Was I Proposed To:

I was proposed two twice. Twice in the space of 24 hours. The first was semi-classic. We were just getting in and went to his apartment after a dinner date and I sat on the sofa to settle in to watch this movie he wanted to show me (i forget what, most likely something that I wouldn't watch otherwise lol). He came over to me and gave me this long stemmed silk rose. I know fake flowers, and they don't ususally glint....this one did. So I said "Thank You" and looked inside. Wow...there was a ring inside it!!!! He simply, after I calmed down a bit, asked me to marry him. I, because mama didn't raise no fool, said yes *smile*.

The second, which was the next day, was at a restaurant - you know where this is going. EXTREMELY CLASSIC. I didn't put the ring on right away and it was in the rose still, but I couldn't find it when I left and he said we'd look for it tomorrow. So, we went out and ate (we like to eat eh?) and after dinner the waitress brings two slices of chocolate cake - and silly me none the wiser. I'm eating the cake and only AFTER I'm good and into it do I see the ring (MY ring) at the edge of the cake. So, he gets on one knee and asks me - again. Complete with holding my hand and sliding the ring on and eeeeeeeeeveryone in the place watching. So this time I'm laughing and crying - which was weird, because I had already been proposed to. So anyway, I said yes again and jumped up and hugged him all like crazy lol. The restaurant cheered. It was nice. I liked it.

I want him to propose to me again lol.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006

RE: Shariaspeak 101

I am horrible about using vernacular at all times unless I'm in a very professional environment (work....as I work in the court system, in the COURTROOM). If I'm speaking with my daughter's teachers or some other professional setting like that. My work emails are attrocious for my personal vernacular. I have even spilled over to my daughters (which is sorta sad I think). Here are some examples:

1. Dude (i use this CONSTANTLY - even when I'm talking to other court personnel)
2. Whodawhat? (when I haven't heard something clearly or don't understand)
3. My bad big dog (it's awful, when I've made some small mistake or error, this is what I usually say)
4. Li'l mama (how I refer to my girls sometimes, or my friends)
5. Naw - I say that a lot....maybe because i'm in the South (florida?)
6. Y'all - see reason for "naw"
7. Fixin' ta - see reason for "y'all"

If i can think of more right away, i will post those.